Your view on yourself:
You are down-to-earth and people like you because you are so straightforward. You are an efficient problem solver because you will listen to both sides of an argument before making a decision that usually appeals to both parties.
The type of girlfriend/boyfriend you are looking for:
You like serious, smart and determined people. You don't judge a book by its cover, so good-looking people aren't necessarily your style. This makes you an attractive person in many people's eyes.
Your readiness to commit to a relationship:
You prefer to get to know a person very well before deciding whether you will commit to the relationship.
The seriousness of your love:
You are very serious about relationships and aren't interested in wasting time with people you don't really like. If you meet the right person, you will fall deeply and beautifully in love.
Your views on education:
Education is very important in life. You want to study hard and learn as much as you can.
The right job for you:
You're a practical person and will choose a secure job with a steady income. Knowing what you like to do is important. Find a regular job doing just that and you'll be set for life.
How do you view success:
You are afraid of failure and scared to have a go at the career you would like to have in case you don't succeed. Don't give up when you haven't yet even started! Be courageous.
What are you most afraid of:
You are concerned about your image and the way others see you. This means that you try very hard to be accepted by other people. It's time for you to believe in who you are, not what you wear.
Who is your true self:
You are mature, reasonable, honest and give good advice. People ask for your comments on all sorts of different issues. Sometimes you might find yourself in a dilemma when trapped with a problem, which your heart rather than your head needs to solve.
FROM: http://www.quizbox.com/personality/test82.aspx
Girl. Boy. Woman. Man.
Being what you are; discovering who you are --- that’s sexuality.
At first, I never got the thought of what is really about being a girl or a boy. I mean, it’s just that being a girl wearing skirt and clipping her hair, and being a boy wearing shorts and playing basketball throughout the afternoon. Sometimes, I just thought of having things twisted --- where girls don’t rush to comb and make up themselves to the mirror and where boys must scamper to prepare for special occasions.
Many of us, especially young people, are confused about who we really are because of many things, many different things the world says us. It is when people think that we are less of a person because of the way we look, or the way boys act softly, etc. The world measures our value as a person with the way we speak, with what we can do and not by who we are. Gender issues cause much of the confusion and therefore unhappiness among many young people.
Nowadays, men, as the protector, provider, and the pastor, turn to abuse themselves. Women, on the other hand, run after guys and are easy to get that they don’t anymore feel that they are worth pursuing for. It is so depressing to think that a girl/a boy is a mistake, that he/she should have been a woman instead of a man, or the other way around.
Realizations come then. No matter what we do, no matter how we change our acts --- the way we talk, the way we dress ourselves, the way we walk --- a woman will always be a woman, a man will always be a man. I believe we are all created by God with all his intentions and purpose, which makes up our dignity. Talking about sexuality, this is undoubting.
The moral lesson taken from the discussion with Father Dennis about sexuality is that, LET’S NOT WASTE OUR TIME TRYING TO BE SOMEONE OR SOMETHING THAT WE ARE NOT AND THAT WE WIL NEVER BE. I believe, with God’s love, what we are, is perfectly okay. ☺
